PLEASE, MARRY RIGHT Breaking the Cycle of Painful Marriages

Marriage has the power to shape your future for better or worse. While many people spend years preparing for a wedding, few prepare adequately for the lifelong commitment that follows. The result is a growing cycle of broken relationships, emotional pain, and family instability.

In PLEASE, MARRY RIGHT: Breaking the Cycle of Painful Marriages, Geoffrey Mbala provides practical, timeless, and biblically grounded principles to help readers make one of the most important decisions of their lives with wisdom and confidence.

Whether you are single, dating, engaged, or counselling others, this book will help you identify the qualities of a healthy life partner, recognize warning signs before it’s too late, and build a strong foundation for a marriage that lasts.

Inside this book, you’ll discover:

• How to choose a life partner wisely.
• The common mistakes that lead to painful marriages.
• Red flags you should never ignore.
• The importance of character, values, and spiritual compatibility.
• How to break destructive relationship patterns and build a healthy marriage.
• Practical principles for creating a lasting, fulfilling relationship.

Don’t leave one of life’s greatest decisions to chance. Learn how to choose wisely, love deeply, and break the cycle of painful marriages—starting today.

Geoffrey Mbala

Rev. Geoffrey Mbala is an accredited High Court Mediator, counsellor, pastor, author, and founder of Rehema Mediation Centre in Kenya. He writes extensively on mediation, family law, divorce, child custody, succession, marriage, relationships, Christian living, leadership, and personal development. Drawing on his experience in court-annexed mediation, pastoral ministry, and counselling, Geoffrey provides practical guidance that empowers individuals and families to resolve conflicts peacefully, rebuild relationships where possible, and move forward with hope. His mission is to educate, inspire, and transform lives through his books, articles, and professional services.

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